Ruling on asking others to make
du’a
Praise be to Allaah.
Asking a person to make du’aa’ for
you who you think will have his du’aa’s answered, either because of his righteousness or because he is going to
a place where one hopes his du’aa’s will be answered, such as travelling or going for Hajj or ‘Umrah, etc.,
is OK in principle. But if there is the fear that something that is not right may result from it, such as the person who makes
the request relying on the person whom he has asked, or always relying on other people with regard to matters in which he
should call on his Lord, or there is the fear that the person of whom the request is made may become arrogant and think that
he has reached such a level that people ask him to make du’aa’ for them, then this is sufficient reason not to
do this, because in this case it leads to something that is not right. If it does not lead to something that is not right,
then in principle it is permissible, but still we say that it should not be done, because it was not the custom of the Sahaabah
(may Allaah be pleased with them) to ask one another to make du’aa’ for one another. The hadeeth in which the
Prophet(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is reported to have said to ‘Umar, “Do not forget us in
your du’aa’, O my brother” (reported by Abu Dawood, no. 1498, and al-Tirmidhi, no. 3557) is a weak
hadeeth and there is no proof that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said this.
With regard to the fact that the Sahaabah (may
Allaah be pleased with them) asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to make du’aa’
for them, it is well-known that no one else can reach the level of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him), so when ‘Ukaashah ibn Muhsan asked him to pray that he would be one of those who would enter Paradise without
being called to account or being punished, he said, “You will be one of them” (reported by al-Bukhaari,
no. 6541; Muslim, no. 216, 218, 220), and when another man came and asked the Prophet(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) to ask Allaah to send them rain, he did so (reported by al-Bukhaari, no. 1013; Muslim, 897).
With regard to the Prophet(peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him) advising his companions to ask Uways al-Qurani to make du’aa’ for them, this undoubtedly
applied only in his case, and it is known that Uways was not on the same level as Abu Bakr or ‘Umar or ‘Uthmaan
or ‘Ali, or other Sahaabah. The Prophet(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not tell anyone among his Sahaabah
to ask anyone to make du’aa’ for them.
To sum up, we can say: there is no sin
in asking someone to make du’aa’ for you that you hope will have his du’aa’ answered, on the condition
that this does not involve anything that is wrong, but it is better and more appropriate not to do this.
Liqa’ al-Baab
al-Maftooh by Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 212
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